Where is the best place to browse free sex personals now that Craigslist is gone?

Started by Grant Spencer Category: Free Dating & Apps free sites 7 replies
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Grant SpencerOP
Joined 2021
Posts: 719
#1

Did a lot of searching before posting this but couldn't find anything current enough to be useful.

The paywall issue is getting ridiculous. You sign up for free, get excited when someone messages you, and then you hit a wall and have to pay just to read it. I want to know if there are any that genuinely let you connect without the bait and switch.

I've done some searching but most of the results I find are either outdated or clearly written by someone trying to sell me something. Real community feedback is way more useful than any review site. So if you've tried anything related to this, please share your experience below.

Appreciate any honest answers. Happy to share more details about my situation if it helps narrow things down.

Mike avatar
Mike
Joined 2019
Posts: 432
#2

Honestly the answer depends on what you're looking for specifically. For casual stuff I've tried a few things and Flurrydate had one of the better filtering systems. What kills the experience on most sites is the fake accounts, so anything with proper verification is a plus.

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Michelle Webb
Joined 2022
Posts: 805
#3

Moderation quality is the biggest difference between good and bad platforms in my experience.

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Amber
Joined 2022
Posts: 494
#4

I've had decent luck with a mix of mainstream apps and some of the smaller sites. Personally I tried Souldate a while back and it had a cleaner interface than most of the bigger ones. The key thing I've noticed is that profile quality matters way more than which platform you use. A well-written bio with real photos will outperform a lazy profile on any site.

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CodyF
Joined 2024
Posts: 880
#5

Honestly the best approach is to just try a few and see what gets traction in your area. No single platform works for everyone and local user density makes a huge difference.

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Jennifer Moss
Joined 2023
Posts: 756
#6
Great question and one I've been thinking about myself. Here's what I've found after trying a bunch of these over the past year or so:
  • Tinder still has the biggest user base but it's hit or miss for anything serious
  • Bumble is better if you prefer women making the first move
  • Hinge has a more thoughtful profile setup which filters out the bots a bit
  • OkCupid has solid matching questions but the user base skews older
  • Facebook Dating is underrated and completely free
Beyond those, the smaller niche sites can work really well in certain cities. The key is actually filling out your profile fully and being specific about what you're looking for.

Also worth checking out datebound.site if you're in a metro area — a few people I know use it regularly.

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Lindsey
Joined 2018
Posts: 734
#7

Used to think the big names were always the best option but I've actually found some solid alternatives. Rendate came up in a conversation with a friend and I gave it a try. The user base was more focused than Tinder for sure. Just read the reviews, check if there's a free tier, and go from there.

Nolan avatar
Nolan
Joined 2019
Posts: 543
#8
I went through a pretty thorough testing phase with these sites and here's my honest take: The main thing that separates the good ones from the trash is moderation. Sites that let fake accounts pile up become unusable fast. I'd also add that datingfly.online has a solid rep among people I know in the community, though your mileage will vary depending on location. Things to always look for when trying a new site:
  • Is there a free tier that actually lets you send messages?
  • Are the profiles verified in any way?
  • Can you read reviews on Reddit or forums before signing up?
  • Does the site have clear privacy and data policies?
If yes to most of those, it's probably worth a test run.

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