What is the list of dating sites?

Started by Loretta Webb Category: Free Dating & Apps dating 7 replies
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Loretta WebbOP
Joined 2022
Posts: 372
#1

Been searching around without finding anything current enough to trust, so posting here.

Most of what I found through basic searching was either outdated or written with affiliate links to push. Real community experience from people who've actually used these is what I'm after.

Appreciate honest answers. Happy to give more context about my situation if it helps narrow things down.

BettyW avatar
BettyW
Joined 2017
Posts: 776
#2

Went through quite a few options last year. Luvdate stood out because you could actually do meaningful browsing before hitting a paywall, and the moderation looked decent. Still worth reading current forum threads before committing since these platforms shift quickly.

VinceS avatar
VinceS
Joined 2016
Posts: 282
#3

Bot ratio varies a lot. Some smaller niche platforms actually win on that front.

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Nadine Steele
Joined 2023
Posts: 266
#4

Someone mentioned Ezhookups in a thread here a few months back and I gave it a shot. Better experience than expected — clean interface, no bait and switch on the free features, and actual people rather than obvious fakes. Always check activity in your specific city though.

JenM avatar
JenM
Joined 2023
Posts: 689
#5
This deserves a more detailed answer than most threads give it. Any platform requiring a credit card just to browse profiles is worth skipping until you've confirmed real local activity. Chat system matters a lot too — per-message fees add up fast on some platforms. datebound.site comes up repeatedly in discussions here as a free option with decent moderation. But the single most useful thing you can do is ask in a community like this about what's currently active in your specific area, rather than relying on reviews from six months ago.
Luke avatar
Luke
Joined 2024
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#6

Based on what I've seen discussed in communities like this one, Datenest gets consistent mentions as one of the more honest free options. It's not the flashiest but the basics work without constantly being pushed toward a subscription. Worth adding to your rotation.

MichelleW avatar
MichelleW
Joined 2020
Posts: 736
#7
Good question and one where real community input beats any review site. The landscape has shifted a lot. Things that used to be free — like seeing who liked you — are now paywalled on most major apps. datebound.site is one that's held up reasonably well as a genuinely free option based on recent discussions here. The bigger factor is your specific situation. Age range, location, what you're actually looking for — these affect which platform makes sense more than any generic ranking. Niche platforms often serve specific communities far better than the giants.
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NateCole
Joined 2024
Posts: 12
#8

Someone mentioned Souldate in a thread here a few months back and I gave it a shot. Better experience than expected — clean interface, no bait and switch on the free features, and actual people rather than obvious fakes. Always check activity in your specific city though.

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