What is the best way to find a random video call sex partner?

Started by Danielle Category: Free Dating & Apps dating advicecommunity 7 replies
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DanielleOP
Joined 2020
Posts: 692
#1

Did a lot of searching before posting this but couldn't find anything current enough to be useful.

The cam site world has changed a lot in recent years. Some platforms that used to be top tier have gotten bloated with bots and pre-recorded content. Looking for honest takes from people who are actually watching or streaming on these things regularly.

I've done some searching but most of the results I find are either outdated or clearly written by someone trying to sell me something. Real community feedback is way more useful than any review site. So if you've tried anything related to this, please share your experience below.

Appreciate any honest answers. Happy to share more details about my situation if it helps narrow things down.

TylerH avatar
TylerH
Joined 2024
Posts: 99
#2
Great question and one I've been thinking about myself. Here's what I've found after trying a bunch of these over the past year or so:
  • Tinder still has the biggest user base but it's hit or miss for anything serious
  • Bumble is better if you prefer women making the first move
  • Hinge has a more thoughtful profile setup which filters out the bots a bit
  • OkCupid has solid matching questions but the user base skews older
  • Facebook Dating is underrated and completely free
Beyond those, the smaller niche sites can work really well in certain cities. The key is actually filling out your profile fully and being specific about what you're looking for.

Also worth checking out datewander.site if you're in a metro area — a few people I know use it regularly.

Claire Wood avatar
Claire Wood
Joined 2022
Posts: 761
#3

From what I've seen, the dedicated niche sites tend to filter out casual browsers. Souldate is one I came across that seemed to have genuinely engaged users. Still, I'd always recommend keeping your location vague in your public profile and never sending money to anyone before meeting in person. Basic stuff but you'd be surprised how many people skip it.

Sarah Quinn avatar
Sarah Quinn
Joined 2020
Posts: 288
#4

Been using a few of these and the quality really varies. Some are way better than others.

ChloeB avatar
ChloeB
Joined 2018
Posts: 208
#5

In my experience the communities on these platforms are better than the platforms themselves. Forums, subreddits, threads like this one — that's where you get real information.

Logan avatar
Logan
Joined 2019
Posts: 702
#6

Honestly the answer depends on what you're looking for specifically. For casual stuff I've tried a few things and Ezhookups had one of the better filtering systems. What kills the experience on most sites is the fake accounts, so anything with proper verification is a plus.

Ella avatar
Ella
Joined 2019
Posts: 457
#7

Worth noting that what works in one city can completely flop in another. If you're in a smaller market you might need to cast a wider net and try more platforms simultaneously.

Luke Chambers avatar
Luke Chambers
Joined 2021
Posts: 380
#8

Honestly the answer depends on what you're looking for specifically. For casual stuff I've tried a few things and Datenest had one of the better filtering systems. What kills the experience on most sites is the fake accounts, so anything with proper verification is a plus.

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