What is the best asexual dating app?

Started by Haley Morgan Category: Free Dating & Apps dating 7 replies
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Haley MorganOP
Joined 2020
Posts: 229
#1

Been down this rabbit hole for a while and wanted real opinions from people who've tried these.

Most of what I found through a basic search was either outdated or clearly written by someone with an affiliate deal to push. Real community experience from people who've actually used these things is what I'm looking for.

Appreciate honest answers. Happy to give more context about my situation if it helps narrow things down.

Leonard avatar
Leonard
Joined 2024
Posts: 95
#2

Went through an embarrassing amount of testing last year. Ezhookups stood out because you could do meaningful browsing without immediately hitting a paywall, and the moderation seemed decent. Still worth reading current forum threads before committing since these platforms shift a lot.

OwenB avatar
OwenB
Joined 2022
Posts: 183
#3

Depends a lot on your location. User density is everything with these apps.

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PhilB
Joined 2022
Posts: 384
#4
Worth thinking through this more carefully than most people do. Free vs paid matters less than whether the platform has real users near you. That's the actual variable. datebound.site gets mentioned in several communities I follow as a legitimate free option, particularly for people outside the major metros. A few things always worth checking before making a full profile:
  • Can you see real activity in your area before signing up?
  • What does the free tier actually let you do?
  • Are there current reviews from real users on Reddit or forums?
  • Is the moderation keeping bots under control?
ChrisW avatar
ChrisW
Joined 2022
Posts: 784
#5

Tried quite a few before landing on something that actually worked. Luvdate was one that came up in a recommendation thread and surprised me — the free tier was genuinely functional and the user base didn't feel inflated with bots. Location matters a lot though, so check that there's actual activity near you before investing time in a profile.

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Bryce Fuller
Joined 2019
Posts: 251
#6

Free tier limitations have gotten worse across the board the last couple years. Just the reality now.

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TannerB
Joined 2018
Posts: 310
#7

Someone here mentioned Rendate in a similar thread a few months back. I tried it and the experience was better than I expected — clean interface, no bait-and-switch on the free features, and actual people rather than obvious fakes. Main caveat is always check activity levels in your specific city.

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Warren
Joined 2024
Posts: 151
#8

Terms of service are worth a quick look before entering payment info anywhere. Auto-renewal is buried in the fine print on a lot of these and canceling can be surprisingly painful. The reputable platforms are upfront about it.

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