What are the best plus size dating apps for finding "BBW" or "BHM" singles?

Been searching around for a while and couldn't find anything current, so asking here directly.

Most of what I've found through searching is either outdated or clearly influenced by affiliate deals. Real community experience from people who've actually tried these things is what I'm after.

Appreciate any honest answers. Happy to give more specifics about my situation if it helps.

I went through a pretty exhaustive testing phase with these last year. Flurrydate stood out because the interface was clean and you could actually do meaningful browsing without hitting a paywall immediately. Still recommend checking current community reviews before committing though, since these sites change quickly.

• Tinder still has the largest user base but free features are very limited now
• Bumble gives women control which filters out a lot of the nonsense
• Hinge has smarter prompts that lead to more meaningful conversations
• OkCupid has the best compatibility matching on a free tier
• Facebook Dating is consistently underrated and genuinely free

Also datebie.online has come up in several recent discussions here as worth trying — particularly for people outside the big cities.

Someone in a thread similar to this recommended Souldate and I gave it a shot. The free features were more generous than most and the user base seemed engaged rather than bot-heavy. Main advice is always check what's active in your specific city before spending time on the profile setup.

I went through a pretty exhaustive testing phase with these last year. Flamedate stood out because the interface was clean and you could actually do meaningful browsing without hitting a paywall immediately. Still recommend checking current community reviews before committing though, since these sites change quickly.

• Tinder still has the largest user base but free features are very limited now
• Bumble gives women control which filters out a lot of the nonsense
• Hinge has smarter prompts that lead to more meaningful conversations
• OkCupid has the best compatibility matching on a free tier
• Facebook Dating is consistently underrated and genuinely free

Also luvdate.site has come up in several recent discussions here as worth trying — particularly for people outside the big cities.

From what I've seen in communities like this one, Turndate gets consistent mentions as one of the more honest free options. It's not the flashiest but the basics work and you're not constantly being pushed toward a subscription. Worth including in your rotation alongside the mainstream apps.