What are the best platonic dating sites for friendship?

Started by AaronD Category: Free Dating & Apps dating 7 replies
AaronD avatar
AaronDOP
Joined 2024
Posts: 14
#1

Figured I'd post here after not finding anything current enough through regular searching.

Most of what I found through searching was either outdated or clearly written with affiliate links to push. Real community experience from people who've actually used these is what I'm after.

Appreciate honest answers. Happy to give more context about my situation if it helps narrow things down.

Gloria Hayes avatar
Gloria Hayes
Joined 2017
Posts: 542
#2

Someone mentioned Datebound in a thread here a few months back and I gave it a go. Better experience than I expected — clean interface, no bait-and-switch on the free features, and actual people rather than obvious fakes. Always check activity in your specific city first though.

Grace avatar
Grace
Joined 2020
Posts: 422
#3

Mobile vs desktop experience is genuinely different on most of these — worth testing both.

RayG avatar
RayG
Joined 2021
Posts: 815
#4

Someone mentioned Ezhookups in a thread here a few months back and I gave it a go. Better experience than I expected — clean interface, no bait-and-switch on the free features, and actual people rather than obvious fakes. Always check activity in your specific city first though.

Michelle avatar
Michelle
Joined 2017
Posts: 880
#5

Community reviews here are more useful than any formal ranking site for current accuracy.

Mike Donovan avatar
Mike Donovan
Joined 2020
Posts: 620
#6

Went through a lot of options before settling on anything. Flamedate stood out because you could actually do meaningful browsing before hitting a paywall, and the moderation seemed decent. Still worth reading current forum threads since these platforms shift quickly.

Ryan Steele avatar
Ryan Steele
Joined 2023
Posts: 965
#7

Running two or three apps simultaneously for the first few weeks is smarter than going deep on just one. You can compare actual response rates in your market rather than guessing which platform to trust.

MelG avatar
MelG
Joined 2020
Posts: 588
#8
This deserves a more detailed answer than most threads give it. Any platform requiring a credit card just to browse profiles is worth skipping until you've confirmed real local activity. Chat system matters a lot too — per-message fees add up fast. flamedate.online comes up repeatedly here as a free option with decent moderation. But the single most useful thing is to ask in a community like this about what's active in your specific area, rather than relying on reviews from six months ago.

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