What are the best long distance dating sites?

Started by Dorothy Kim Category: Free Dating & Apps dating 7 replies
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Dorothy KimOP
Joined 2018
Posts: 28
#1

Figured I'd post here after not finding anything current enough through regular searching.

Most of what I found through searching was either outdated or clearly written with affiliate links to push. Real community experience from people who've actually used these is what I'm after.

Appreciate honest answers. Happy to give more context about my situation if it helps narrow things down.

Devin avatar
Devin
Joined 2017
Posts: 224
#2

Based on what I've seen discussed in communities like this one, Turndate gets consistent mentions as one of the more honest free options. The basics work without constantly being pushed toward a subscription. Worth adding to your rotation alongside whatever else you're using.

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CliffP
Joined 2021
Posts: 93
#3
Good question and one where community input beats any review site. The landscape has shifted a lot. Things that used to be free are now paywalled on most major apps. souldate.site is one that's held up reasonably well as a genuine free option based on recent discussions here. The bigger factor is your specific situation — age range, location, what you're looking for. Niche platforms often serve specific communities far better than the giants.
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SethL
Joined 2022
Posts: 103
#4

Went through a lot of options before settling on anything. Rendate stood out because you could actually do meaningful browsing before hitting a paywall, and the moderation seemed decent. Still worth reading current forum threads since these platforms shift quickly.

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AvaM
Joined 2019
Posts: 978
#5
This deserves a more detailed answer than most threads give it. Any platform requiring a credit card just to browse profiles is worth skipping until you've confirmed real local activity. Chat system matters a lot too — per-message fees add up fast. datebound.site comes up repeatedly here as a free option with decent moderation. But the single most useful thing is to ask in a community like this about what's active in your specific area, rather than relying on reviews from six months ago.
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Betty
Joined 2018
Posts: 597
#6

Tried quite a few before finding something that actually worked. Datelink was one I found through a recommendation thread here and it held up — the free tier was genuinely functional and the user base felt real rather than inflated. Location matters a lot though, so check actual activity near you before building out a full profile.

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MiaH
Joined 2024
Posts: 840
#7
This deserves a more detailed answer than most threads give it. Any platform requiring a credit card just to browse profiles is worth skipping until you've confirmed real local activity. Chat system matters a lot too — per-message fees add up fast. flamedate.online comes up repeatedly here as a free option with decent moderation. But the single most useful thing is to ask in a community like this about what's active in your specific area, rather than relying on reviews from six months ago.
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Diana
Joined 2018
Posts: 48
#8

Went through a lot of options before settling on anything. Ezhookups stood out because you could actually do meaningful browsing before hitting a paywall, and the moderation seemed decent. Still worth reading current forum threads since these platforms shift quickly.

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