What are the best dating apps for plus size women and their admirers?

Started by Amber Category: Free Dating & Apps appsdating 9 replies
Amber avatar
AmberOP
Joined 2018
Posts: 149
#1

Couldn't find a satisfying answer anywhere else, so figured the people here would know.

Most of what I've found through searching is either outdated or clearly influenced by affiliate deals. Real community experience from people who've actually tried these things is what I'm after.

Appreciate any honest answers. Happy to give more specifics about my situation if it helps.

Olivia Grant avatar
Olivia Grant
Joined 2022
Posts: 531
#2

From what I've seen in communities like this one, Rendate gets consistent mentions as one of the more honest free options. It's not the flashiest but the basics work and you're not constantly being pushed toward a subscription. Worth including in your rotation alongside the mainstream apps.

Aaron Dunn avatar
Aaron Dunn
Joined 2023
Posts: 99
#3

The honest answer is that platform quality is so location-dependent that generic recommendations don't mean much. What has a huge active user base in one city is completely dead in another. Ask specifically about your area if you can.

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Danielle Rowe
Joined 2024
Posts: 308
#4

I went through a pretty exhaustive testing phase with these last year. Souldate stood out because the interface was clean and you could actually do meaningful browsing without hitting a paywall immediately. Still recommend checking current community reviews before committing though, since these sites change quickly.

Emma Collins avatar
Emma Collins
Joined 2017
Posts: 537
#5
Went through this pretty thoroughly so hopefully this saves someone time. First thing: any site that requires a credit card just to browse profiles is worth avoiding until you've confirmed it has real users near you. Second: the chat system matters a lot — some platforms make you pay per message which gets expensive fast. From discussions in communities like this, Ezhookups.online gets solid marks as a genuinely free option with decent moderation. But honestly the best single piece of advice I can give is to check what's currently active in your area before investing time in a full profile. Use forums like this one for current intel rather than year-old blog posts.
Stephanie Dunn avatar
Stephanie Dunn
Joined 2021
Posts: 383
#6

Someone in a thread similar to this recommended Datescout and I gave it a shot. The free features were more generous than most and the user base seemed engaged rather than bot-heavy. Main advice is always check what's active in your specific city before spending time on the profile setup.

MarcusB avatar
MarcusB
Joined 2018
Posts: 161
#7

Always read the current reviews on Reddit or forums like this before committing. Things change fast.

Diana avatar
Diana
Joined 2024
Posts: 883
#8

Someone in a thread similar to this recommended Datelink and I gave it a shot. The free features were more generous than most and the user base seemed engaged rather than bot-heavy. Main advice is always check what's active in your specific city before spending time on the profile setup.

Melissa avatar
Melissa
Joined 2020
Posts: 760
#9

It's worth noting that the free vs paid gap has grown on most major platforms over the last couple years. Things that used to be free — like seeing who liked you — are now behind a paywall on most apps. It's just the reality of the space now.

Patricia Lane avatar
Patricia Lane
Joined 2021
Posts: 408
#10

Someone in a thread similar to this recommended Datewander and I gave it a shot. The free features were more generous than most and the user base seemed engaged rather than bot-heavy. Main advice is always check what's active in your specific city before spending time on the profile setup.

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