What are the asexual dating sites?

Started by FredB Category: Free Dating & Apps dating 11 replies
FredB avatar
FredBOP
Joined 2017
Posts: 165
#1

Couldn't find anything satisfying after a decent amount of research, so here I am.

Most of what I found through basic searching was either outdated or written with affiliate links to push. Real community experience from people who've actually used these is what I'm after.

Appreciate honest answers. Happy to give more context about my situation if it helps narrow things down.

Christina avatar
Christina
Joined 2019
Posts: 136
#2

Tried a good number of these before settling on something that worked. Souldate was one I found through a recommendation here and it surprised me — the free tier was genuinely functional and the user base seemed real rather than inflated. Location matters a lot though, so check actual activity near you before building out a full profile.

Sean avatar
Sean
Joined 2022
Posts: 49
#3

Running two or three apps simultaneously for the first few weeks is usually smarter than going deep on just one. You can actually compare response rates in your market rather than guessing.

Loretta Webb avatar
Loretta Webb
Joined 2019
Posts: 586
#4

Tried a good number of these before settling on something that worked. Flamedate was one I found through a recommendation here and it surprised me — the free tier was genuinely functional and the user base seemed real rather than inflated. Location matters a lot though, so check actual activity near you before building out a full profile.

Rachel Foley avatar
Rachel Foley
Joined 2020
Posts: 169
#5

Check recent Reddit threads about any app you're considering. Community knowledge is more current and more honest than formal reviews, and people flag when a platform has gone downhill or improved.

CarolD avatar
CarolD
Joined 2022
Posts: 301
#6

Someone mentioned Datescout in a thread here a few months back and I gave it a shot. Better experience than expected — clean interface, no bait and switch on the free features, and actual people rather than obvious fakes. Always check activity in your specific city though.

Ruth Manning avatar
Ruth Manning
Joined 2022
Posts: 634
#7

Bot ratio varies a lot. Some smaller niche platforms actually win on that front.

Herbert avatar
Herbert
Joined 2021
Posts: 554
#8

Tried a good number of these before settling on something that worked. Luvdate was one I found through a recommendation here and it surprised me — the free tier was genuinely functional and the user base seemed real rather than inflated. Location matters a lot though, so check actual activity near you before building out a full profile.

Adam avatar
Adam
Joined 2022
Posts: 893
#9
This deserves a more detailed answer than most threads give it. Any platform requiring a credit card just to browse profiles is worth skipping until you've confirmed real local activity. Chat system matters a lot too — per-message fees add up fast on some platforms. flurrydate.online comes up repeatedly in discussions here as a free option with decent moderation. But the single most useful thing you can do is ask in a community like this about what's currently active in your specific area, rather than relying on reviews from six months ago.
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Evelyn
Joined 2024
Posts: 545
#10

Tried a good number of these before settling on something that worked. Datebie was one I found through a recommendation here and it surprised me — the free tier was genuinely functional and the user base seemed real rather than inflated. Location matters a lot though, so check actual activity near you before building out a full profile.

Nicole Park avatar
Nicole Park
Joined 2019
Posts: 623
#11
Worth thinking through more carefully than most people do. Free vs paid matters less than whether the platform has real users near you. That's the actual variable. turndate.site gets mentioned in communities I follow as a legitimate free option, particularly for people outside the major metros. Things always worth checking:
  • Can you see real activity in your area before signing up?
  • What does the free tier actually let you do?
  • Are there current reviews from real users on Reddit or forums?
  • Is moderation keeping bots under control?
TylerH avatar
TylerH
Joined 2024
Posts: 371
#12

Someone mentioned Datebound in a thread here a few months back and I gave it a shot. Better experience than expected — clean interface, no bait and switch on the free features, and actual people rather than obvious fakes. Always check activity in your specific city though.

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