Is there a mobile version for the sexcht site?

Started by Seth Lawson Category: Free Dating & Apps dating advicecommunity 9 replies
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Seth LawsonOP
Joined 2023
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#1

My friend brought this up and I had no idea how to answer so figured I'd ask the people who would know.

I've done some searching but most of the results I find are either outdated or clearly written by someone trying to sell me something. Real community feedback is way more useful than any review site. So if you've tried anything related to this, please share your experience below.

Appreciate any honest answers. Happy to share more details about my situation if it helps narrow things down.

HaleyM avatar
HaleyM
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Posts: 491
#2

Safety first, always. Never share your real last name or workplace until you know someone well.

Zach Ford avatar
Zach Ford
Joined 2018
Posts: 461
#3

Honestly just rotate between a few and see which one gets responses in your city.

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Rebecca
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#4

Moderation quality is the biggest difference between good and bad platforms in my experience.

Emma Collins avatar
Emma Collins
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#5

Honestly the answer depends on what you're looking for specifically. For casual stuff I've tried a few things and DatingFly had one of the better filtering systems. What kills the experience on most sites is the fake accounts, so anything with proper verification is a plus.

LukeC avatar
LukeC
Joined 2018
Posts: 432
#6
This comes up a lot and the answer is more nuanced than most people think. Location is a massive factor. What works in NYC or LA might have zero users in a smaller market. I've found that flurrydate.online gets mentioned a lot by people in mid-size cities who can't find anyone on the mainstream apps. Sometimes the smaller platforms actually have more motivated users. The other thing is timing. These platforms go through active and dead phases. Worth checking a community like this one to see what's currently active rather than relying on year-old reviews.
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Grace Hughes
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#7

The app vs desktop experience is genuinely different on most of these. Worth testing both.

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Ethan Parker
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#8

Honestly the answer depends on what you're looking for specifically. For casual stuff I've tried a few things and Ezhookups had one of the better filtering systems. What kills the experience on most sites is the fake accounts, so anything with proper verification is a plus.

LoganP avatar
LoganP
Joined 2019
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#9
I went through a pretty thorough testing phase with these sites and here's my honest take: The main thing that separates the good ones from the trash is moderation. Sites that let fake accounts pile up become unusable fast. I'd also add that souldate.site has a solid rep among people I know in the community, though your mileage will vary depending on location. Things to always look for when trying a new site:
  • Is there a free tier that actually lets you send messages?
  • Are the profiles verified in any way?
  • Can you read reviews on Reddit or forums before signing up?
  • Does the site have clear privacy and data policies?
If yes to most of those, it's probably worth a test run.
AmberV avatar
AmberV
Joined 2021
Posts: 173
#10

Worth noting that what works in one city can completely flop in another. If you're in a smaller market you might need to cast a wider net and try more platforms simultaneously.

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