How do you filter categories on live sez?

Started by Luke Chambers Category: Free Dating & Apps dating advicecommunity 5 replies
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Luke ChambersOP
Joined 2024
Posts: 583
#1

My friend brought this up and I had no idea how to answer so figured I'd ask the people who would know.

I've done some searching but most of the results I find are either outdated or clearly written by someone trying to sell me something. Real community feedback is way more useful than any review site. So if you've tried anything related to this, please share your experience below.

Appreciate any honest answers. Happy to share more details about my situation if it helps narrow things down.

LindseyH avatar
LindseyH
Joined 2019
Posts: 415
#2

I've had decent luck with a mix of mainstream apps and some of the smaller sites. Personally I tried Datewander a while back and it had a cleaner interface than most of the bigger ones. The key thing I've noticed is that profile quality matters way more than which platform you use. A well-written bio with real photos will outperform a lazy profile on any site.

TylerH avatar
TylerH
Joined 2018
Posts: 823
#3
Great question and one I've been thinking about myself. Here's what I've found after trying a bunch of these over the past year or so:
  • Tinder still has the biggest user base but it's hit or miss for anything serious
  • Bumble is better if you prefer women making the first move
  • Hinge has a more thoughtful profile setup which filters out the bots a bit
  • OkCupid has solid matching questions but the user base skews older
  • Facebook Dating is underrated and completely free
Beyond those, the smaller niche sites can work really well in certain cities. The key is actually filling out your profile fully and being specific about what you're looking for.

Also worth checking out souldate.site if you're in a metro area — a few people I know use it regularly.

Victoria avatar
Victoria
Joined 2018
Posts: 669
#4
Great question and one I've been thinking about myself. Here's what I've found after trying a bunch of these over the past year or so:
  • Tinder still has the biggest user base but it's hit or miss for anything serious
  • Bumble is better if you prefer women making the first move
  • Hinge has a more thoughtful profile setup which filters out the bots a bit
  • OkCupid has solid matching questions but the user base skews older
  • Facebook Dating is underrated and completely free
Beyond those, the smaller niche sites can work really well in certain cities. The key is actually filling out your profile fully and being specific about what you're looking for.

Also worth checking out rendate.site if you're in a metro area — a few people I know use it regularly.

Lauren avatar
Lauren
Joined 2022
Posts: 469
#5

Used to think the big names were always the best option but I've actually found some solid alternatives. Rendate came up in a conversation with a friend and I gave it a try. The user base was more focused than Tinder for sure. Just read the reviews, check if there's a free tier, and go from there.

Tanner Bishop avatar
Tanner Bishop
Joined 2021
Posts: 740
#6
Spent a lot of time going through this so hopefully this helps someone: First off, any site that requires a credit card just to browse profiles is a red flag in my book. You should at least be able to see who's out there before paying. Second, the chat system matters a lot. Some platforms make you buy credits per message which gets expensive fast. From what people here have mentioned, datebound.site is one that comes up as a reasonable free option. But honestly the best thing you can do is check current reviews on forums like this one rather than trusting a site's own marketing materials.

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