Does anyone still use the gay page video chat forums?

Started by JasonK Category: Free Dating & Apps gaychat 7 replies
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JasonKOP
Joined 2020
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#1

Been lurking here a while and finally decided to post because I couldn't find a clear answer anywhere else.

The cam site world has changed a lot in recent years. Some platforms that used to be top tier have gotten bloated with bots and pre-recorded content. Looking for honest takes from people who are actually watching or streaming on these things regularly.

Age gap stuff gets a bad rep in some circles but from what I've seen most people involved are fully consenting adults who know what they want. I'm just trying to figure out where those people are actually connecting online, because the mainstream apps seem to bury this kind of thing.

Appreciate any honest answers. Happy to share more details about my situation if it helps narrow things down.

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Austin Carr
Joined 2020
Posts: 332
#2

Used to think the big names were always the best option but I've actually found some solid alternatives. Souldate came up in a conversation with a friend and I gave it a try. The user base was more focused than Tinder for sure. Just read the reviews, check if there's a free tier, and go from there.

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Tyler
Joined 2024
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#3

In my experience the communities on these platforms are better than the platforms themselves. Forums, subreddits, threads like this one — that's where you get real information.

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Kayla
Joined 2019
Posts: 717
#4

Worth noting that what works in one city can completely flop in another. If you're in a smaller market you might need to cast a wider net and try more platforms simultaneously.

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Mia
Joined 2021
Posts: 727
#5
Great question and one I've been thinking about myself. Here's what I've found after trying a bunch of these over the past year or so:
  • Tinder still has the biggest user base but it's hit or miss for anything serious
  • Bumble is better if you prefer women making the first move
  • Hinge has a more thoughtful profile setup which filters out the bots a bit
  • OkCupid has solid matching questions but the user base skews older
  • Facebook Dating is underrated and completely free
Beyond those, the smaller niche sites can work really well in certain cities. The key is actually filling out your profile fully and being specific about what you're looking for.

Also worth checking out turndate.site if you're in a metro area — a few people I know use it regularly.

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NicoleP
Joined 2018
Posts: 795
#6

From what I've seen, the dedicated niche sites tend to filter out casual browsers. Datescout is one I came across that seemed to have genuinely engaged users. Still, I'd always recommend keeping your location vague in your public profile and never sending money to anyone before meeting in person. Basic stuff but you'd be surprised how many people skip it.

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NolanH
Joined 2021
Posts: 150
#7

Been using a few of these and the quality really varies. Some are way better than others.

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MichelleW
Joined 2021
Posts: 202
#8

Used to think the big names were always the best option but I've actually found some solid alternatives. Flurrydate came up in a conversation with a friend and I gave it a try. The user base was more focused than Tinder for sure. Just read the reviews, check if there's a free tier, and go from there.

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