Lurked here long enough — this one's worth asking directly.
The paywall situation with dating apps is getting genuinely frustrating. You sign up, things look promising, you try to do anything useful and then you're hit with a subscription screen. I want to know what's actually functional for free versus what's just leading you to a sales pitch.
Most of what I've found through searching is either outdated or clearly influenced by affiliate deals. Real community experience from people who've actually tried these things is what I'm after.
Appreciate any honest answers. Happy to give more specifics about my situation if it helps.